In S01E05 of “Fresh Off the Boat,” all the boys in Eddie’s middle school are attracted to sleepovers that offer “porno content,” which are just dirty magazines from their older brothers. Although they do not even understand what most of the content means, they think it is “cool.” Eddie shows the sexual harassment video he accidentally finds to his friends during his sleepover, and suddenly everyone in school thinks they have seen porn and starts imitating the video. Clearly none of these teenage boys know anything about sex, but they just naturally think the ability to get a girl or even just get porno movies is cool. It is interesting that teenagers who have zero sexual experience are the ones who are the most passionate about sex. They try really hard to look for sexually explicit content, and take whatever they see as the reality. As a result of their curiousness, teenagers tend to be the group who are highly affected by porn. According to the research of Peter and Valkenburg, the more sexually explicit Internet material exposure adolescents have, the less satisfied towards sex they will be (183), and this effect is especially strong for adolescents who do not have much sexual experience (184). However, as previously stated, they are the ones who are particularly interested in sexually explicit content as well. Therefore, they watch more, they believe more, and they get disappointed more.
It is funny that despite how cool teenagers think porn is, when they grow up as adults, most of them tend to rather think watching porn is a shame, or at least something they do not want to talk about. In this episode of “How I Met Your Mother,” Ted finds out a guy who has the exact same name as him starring in porno movies. His reactions to people who watch porn are quite interesting:
By saying “why is my doctor
watching porn,” and later in the episode (which is not shown in this clip)
saying to another person who jokes about his name being the same with a porn
star:”Haha very funny, Wendy. Now we know you watch porn,” Ted implies the
disdain of people who watch porn. Although he himself watches the porno movie
started by “him” – Ted Mosby, he immediately judge someone else who watches it.
It is strange that almost everyone has experience watching porn, but it almost
feel shameful to admit that. My personal guess is, as adults we have more
knowledge about sex and understand it is a private thing. So anything related
to sex – including porn – becomes personal and therefore is hard to say out
loud. That might be the reason why teenagers who barely know anything about sex
tend to openly discuss the dirty magazines they see at school, but adults who
have seen a lot of porno movies will never admit that unless they have to. I
have no idea what this means other than indicating that adults are more
experienced and more mature, but this might just be one of those things that
you grow out of – the older you are, the more things you have to hide, the more
you value privacy.
Peter, J. & Valkenburg, P. M. (2009). Adolescents' exposure to sexually explicit Internet material and sexual satisfaction: A longitudinal study. Human Communication Research, 35(2), 171-194. doi:10.1111/j.1468-2958.2009.01343.x