Saturday, January 24, 2015

Maroon 5: From "Masculine" to Monogamy?

            When I think of Maroon 5, particularly front man, Adam Levine, I conjure up the image of People’s 2013 Sexiest Man Alive. Known for his signature pretty boy face and tattoo-clad arms, Levine’s almost paradoxical appearance lures all female demographics: from the young elementary school girl to the middle-aged mother. As someone who grew up with Maroon 5 I’ve seen the band go from an up-and-coming pop band to a hit sensation; I’ve therefore also seen Levine go from just another musician trying to make it in the business to a sex symbol.
            With this in mind, and the rooted parasocial relationship I feel I have with Maroon 5 (stemming from around age eight), I thought it was interesting to consider their new music video for their song “Sugar” and its comparison to one of their first music videos for “She Will Be Loved.” To be honest, when I was younger I didn’t get the narrative of “She Will Be Loved”; I was drawn to the risqué and suggestive sex scenes of one of my favorite bands. However, after watching it years later, I finally understand that it follows a narrative style, telling the unfortunate love story of Levine and a young girl juxtaposed with the abusive relationship between the girl’s mother and father. Levine’s character, however, is infatuated with his girlfriend’s mother and ends up having an affair with her. The video concludes with the daughter discovering the outlandish infidelity.



When we look at their most recent video “Sugar” the tone is completely different. The plot is modeled after the movie Wedding Crashers with it beginning with Levine saying, “It’s December 6, 2014. We’re going to drive across LA and hit every wedding we possibly can. It’s going to be awesome.” Based in reality, the band did just what they set out to do; they hop into their old-fashioned convertible and surprise recently married couples.


            Certainly the videos differ in a variety of ways; however, they share a theme, romance and love. With this in mind, it’s interesting to consider how the videos take divergent approaches, and how society tends to accept them both as aesthetically interesting. The “She Will Be Loved” video approaches love and romance through dysfunction; ostensibly, Levine and the mother were not “supposed” to end up together. By contrast, the “Sugar” video conveys a more prototypical image of love, by promoting the happily-ever-after ideology.
            Sure, these differences are obvious, so what makes the video contrast matter? Really, the contrast between the videos goes beyond just the divergent thematic approaches. Scholars have noticed a discrepancy in gendered portrayals in today’s media. Specifically, Janna L. Kim and her fellow researchers coined what they perceived as being a Heterosexual Script or, “the blueprint for societally sanctioned romantic and sexual interactions” (146), which they then analyzed along different dimensions.
            Using some of these dimensions as a basis, the differences between “She Will Be Loved” and “Sugar” become much more intriguing. I would argue that “She Will Be Loved” follows the Heterosexual Script pretty literally: Levine is the sexual instigator, whereas the daughter and mother are merely taken by him; Levine acts as the savior of the helplessly abused mother; Levine is an infidel, struggling between his girlfriend and her mother; and finally, his womanizer tendencies are inherently a byproduct of his heterosexual tendencies. On the other hand, “Sugar,” I’m contending, diverges from the Heterosexual Script. Certainly, all of the couples shown in the video are heterosexual (something I thought the director and Levine ought to have considered especially considering his endorsement of same-sex marriage), which adheres to the Heterosexual Script’s idea of male-oriented homophobia; however, along the other dimensions I found that the video departed from the Script. The video actively promotes monogamy and marriage, and the newly married husbands and wives are seemingly positioned as equals: equally excited by the unexpected performance and equally in love.

            So then, is this a new Maroon 5? Did Levine’s recent marriage instigate a change in the band’s approach to videography? Will the popular pop band continue to stray away from the hypersexual version of the Heterosexual Script, which they once actively employed, and opt for a newfound promotion of equity and commitment? The answer: who knows. What I can say is that as someone who grew up a Maroon 5 fan, thus seeking out their music videos from a young age, I certainly hope so. There’s such a value in indoctrinating children with positive images of relationships from a young age. Rather than furthering this Heterosexual Script, which positions males as more powerful and unable to commit (or in the case of the “She Will Be Loved” video, as infidels and abusers), I would hope that my kids are taught that relationships can be productive, can be positive, and are endorsed by the musicians that they esteem.

References:

Kim, J. L., Sorsoli, C. L., Collins, K., Zylbergold, B. A., Schooler, D., & Tolman, D. L. (2007). From sex to sexuality: Exposing the heterosexual script on primetime network television. Journal of Sex Research, 44(2), 145-157. doi: 10.1080/00224490701263660 

Physical Consequences of Sexual Decisions on Television: Rewarded, Punished, or Absent All Together

It seems that if we can draw one consensus from the research and scholarly writing on sexual decisions and behavior in the media that it would be that the media educates us- we learn by watching which characters or figures are rewarded and which are punished for their sexual conquests. Turning to television, specifically, Ward (2003) has found that there is lack of discussion and depiction of sexual planning and consequences of sexual decisions, with few references to disease, contraception, pregnancy prevention, and abortion within the television content that she examined. She did, however, find that emotional consequences of sex like betrayal, pain, and embarrassment were highlighted much more frequently (Ward, 2003, 351-355). In the event that unwanted pregnancy was portrayed, Hust, Brown, and L'Engle (2008) found that "teen pregnancy often is considered a 'girl's problem,'" girls being solely responsible for their children in the absence of teen fathers as well as responsible for preventing pregnancy and STDs (16).




















In thinking about today's media environment, I have to say that I think Ward's finding in 2003 that physical consequences of sex were quite absent is frankly outdated in 2015, which is to be expected. However, I don't know that I can argue that the presence of these physical as well as emotional consequences of sexual decisions are all healthy and realistic. The particular media that comes to mind when I thought about this particular finding was ABC Family's The Secret Life of the American Teenager and the WB's Gilmore Girls. 


The first aired on ABC Family from 2008 to 2013, becoming a hit just as I was leaving middle school and entering high school. I remember scoffing at this show, refusing to watch it because I couldn't believe what it was portraying, yet still being intrigued by the drama of the teen star's pregnancy. The show centers around Amy who, after a fling at band camp, becomes pregnant. She must deal with the consequences but she still lives at home, still lives with her parents, still attends school, and still manages to raise her son at the age of 16. A similar situation is portrayed in one of my favorite shows of all time, Gilmore Girls. This show aired on the WB from 2000-2007 and portrays the lives of mother Lorelai and daughter Rory, the witty, beautiful, and fast talking duo in the storybook town of Stars Hollow, Connecticut. Lorelai gives birth to Rory at the age of 16, a consequence of her first sexual experience with teenage sweetheart Christopher. While the show's first season begins with Rory at the age of 16, one episode flashes back to Lorelai giving birth in 1984:



The two examples briefly described here kind of throw a wrench into what we have learned from our readings in this course so far. Shows like this that incorporate teen pregnancy are not in short supply. Thus, while Ward's findings in 2003 might be outdated, Hust et al.'s conclusion that responsibility for teen pregnancy is relegated to the mother is much more acute. However, Hust et al. seems to conclude that this responsibility is assumed by the teen girl in a negative way. These shows contradict this notion. These television shows that acclaimed much success with teens and young adults show two young girls that are rewarded in some sense for getting pregnant and having a child at 16. Amy and Lorelai both thrive as characters, and in a literal sense are rewarded with a television show centering around them for having a child as a teen. Amy and Lorelai both face hardships from getting pregnant when they did and they both exhibit a range of emotional consequences from their sexual decisions. Yet, they are both characterized as strong women that have figured out motherhood, thriving in the absence of the fathers of their children.

Therefore, television is working to portray a very specific picture of teen pregnancy and what it should look like. The script here follows teens that are coming from an upper-middle class background that are witty, very stereotypically attractive, and rewarded in the long run for the way they handled their teen pregnancy. If options for abortion or adoption are brought up in these two shows, they are dismissed readily, and both television shows depict the teen mother as figuring things out and truly happy with their children and the lifestyle that having a child creates. This says something about what is being rewarded and punished. Even though there is some element of social punishing or ostracizing in these shows from friends and family, the overall theme is reward.

Where does this leave us? What kind of message or new scripts is this kind of media creating? From this limited analysis it seems to me that the new script around teen pregnancy is that is not something we all should strive for, but in the event that it does happen, the results will be overall quite positive, something I think is far from the reality of teen pregnancy off of the television screen.

Works Cited:
Hust, S., Brown, J., & L'Engle, K. (2008). Boys will be boys and girls better be prepared: An analysis of the rare sexual health messages in young adolescents' media. Mass Communication & Society, 11, 3-23.

Ward, L. (2003). Understanding the role of entertainment media int he sexual socialization of the American youth: A Review of empirical research. Developmental Review, 23, 347-388.

Life is Short, Talk Fast (2009). Lorelai giving birth to Rory. Retrieved from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zAAa53zcsns.

Tuesday, January 20, 2015

Feminist Outlook on The Bachelor

Feminist Outlook on The Bachelor

I like to think of myself as a feminist and so it just bothers me that every time I find myself watching The Bachelor, I am instantly sucked in. The premise is simple: An attractive, charismatic man is ready to settle down and commit to marriage (Oh my god – the ultimate man!!!) – and 20+ beautiful women are in the market to be his wife. In other words, one man gets to date multiple women at once and the women are totally fine with this (cheating? – nahhh). In a series of events – let it be trips to exotic places, dinner dates, or hoe-down throwns in the latest Bachelor episode (which featured bikini laden girls doing tractor rides) the Bachelor gets to make decisions on who he would like to keep seeing and who he would not. Girls he wants to see again are given the honor of receiving a rose, and girls that do not receive a rose leave the show crying and broken-hearted.

So what is wrong with this picture? Well, The Bachelor depicts many negative elements regarding the Heterosexual Script…

My biggest issue with the show is the sexual double standard: “men should actively exhibit their sexual prowess” (Kim et al., 2007) while women should be “sexual-gatekeepers”. The show thrives on the premise that one man can get with multiple women and this is socially acceptable. The man is not labeled “man whore” or anything else demeaning (in fact, he is probably envied by other men) – but if it was a girl in society getting with multiple men at once she would likely be titled a “slut” or “whore”.



Megan gets the first date!!! And yes - she is aware that Chris is also dating 20+ other women...


Additionally it bothers me that the girls so badly want to be with the Bachelor that before even meeting him they agreed to marry him (in the logic that: by signing up to do the show, they had the possibility of being chosen, and if being chosen they would marry him as the finale Bachelor episode always ends with a marriage proposal). As Kim et. al states, the media sends the message that feminine commitment “consists of seeking or asking for more commitment, monogamy, or marriage, and needing a boyfriend or a husband to feel like [women’s] lives are complete” (Kim et al., 2007).  It sickens me that girls want commitment and a monogamous relationship so badly that to get this they will resort to going on a reality show and force “love” to happen – as well as overlook the fact that the Bachelor is keeping his options open and not being monogamous in their relationship. Perhaps the women are so interested in the Bachelor because he defies stereotypes… Most men run away from commitment and are not ready to take a relationship to the next level, but the Bachelor is not just ready for a commitment, he is ready for marriage.

Furthermore, what also bothers me about The Bachelor is the lengths that women will go to, to get the Bachelor to fall in love with them (or, in the initial stages, simply attracted to them). In beginning episodes they will dress in sexy outfits that flatter their bodies (cue the Hoe Down Throw Down Bachelor scene). In later episodes however, the women are often willing to have sex with the Bachelor (because women know that men like sex and so perhaps sex will make the Bachelor desire them more). In feminine courting strategies depicted in media “women objectify themselves and exploit their bodies to attain power in romantic relationships” (Kim et al., 2007). Perhaps the women in The Bachelor have engaged with too much media and think that is the correct way to behave and the correct way to win a man over?



Is this a male fantasy or what? Look at all those girls in bikinis!!!    

Finally, to end my rant, my last complaint about The Bachelor again regards feminine courting strategies – although this time feminine courting strategies that emphasize “passive and indirect ways in which women attract or court a male partner” (Kim et al., 2007). In the Bachelor women play into sexual stereotypes and allow the man to make the first move and have the power in their relationship. This is depicted via the women waiting for the man to give them a rose and be asked back. The message enforces the idea that men are sexual initiators and that it is a woman’s place to be passive. Additionally, the message enforces the idea that a girls self-worth relies on a man: the girls are heartbroken and feel terrible about themselves when they are given a rose/ asked back and, in contrast, feel great about themselves when they are given a rose/asked back.



The Final Rose Ceremony - Look at the different reactions of girls who get a rose and those who don't!

While the Bachelor makes for excellent television, the messages it sends to men and women about the Heterosexual Script are quite despicable.   





Works Cited

Kim, J., Lynn Sorsoli, C., Collins, K., Zylbergold, B., Schooler, D., & Tolman, D. (2007). From Sex to Sexuality: Exposing the Heterosexual Script on Primetime Network Television. Journal of Sex Research, 44, 145-157.

Bachelor TV. The Bachelor Chris – The Bikini Tractor Race. (2015, January 13). Retrieved from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJ6ZUMxdICM

Bachelor TV. The Bachelor Chris – The Final Rose. (2015, January 13). Retrieved from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xi8FJPusV8k


Bachelor TV. The Bachelor Chris - Megan Get's the First Date. (2015, January 15). Retrieved from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uRau5nstRnQ