Have you seen Easy A?
It is one of my favorite movies! In case you haven’t seen it let me give you
the basic plot: Easy A is about a
high school girl named Olive Penderghast, who told a little white lie to her
best friend about losing her virginity. Unfortunately, someone in the bathroom
overheard and soon the whole school knows about Olive and her [fictional]
college guy getting it on. After the rumor circulates, Olive admits to her gay
friend in confidence that it is a lie, and he asks if she might pretend to have
sex with him since he is being bullied for being queer and the school already
thinks that she has lost her virginity. Olive decides to help him out, and soon
other outcast guys are asking Olive to do the same for them to advance their
social standing. As Olive helps these guys out by pretending to have sex with
them, she develops a promiscuous reputation around school and is consequently
shunned by her classmates.
As I watched this movie recently, I couldn’t help but think
to myself how perfectly this movie exemplifies some of the concepts we have
talked about in class: 1) the sexual double standard and 2) how young adults
misperceive the social norm.
In the film, Olive helps outcast guys achieve better social
standing at school through pretending to have sex with them. The irony is that
as Olive “sleeps” with more and more guys, she further degrades her own social
standing, hence highlighting how Sex as
Masculinity and the Good Girls Code
come into conflict. While men are supposed to get with many women and have lots
of sex, women are supposed to be monogamous and sexual gatekeepers (Kim, Sorsoli, Collins, Zylbergold, Schooler, & Tolman, 2007). When
women are not sexual gatekeepers, there are real life consequences, which are
depicted in the movie. Generally, one is socially punished by being given demeaning
titles like “slut” and “whore”. Additionally, people tend to avoid associating
with “sluts” or “whores” - for fear that associating with a “slut” or “whore”
could encourage others to label you the
same thing.
Additionally, this movie depicts how young adults
misperceive the social norm. A study we read in class stated that “students
believed that their peers were more sexually permissive than was actually the
case” (Chia & Gunter, 2006) and Easy A revolves
around this concept. No one in this movie is as sexually active as their peers
think they are – it is all an illusion. Olive pretends to have lost her
virginity when talking to her girl friend Rhiannon, and then helps others “lose
their virginity” as well. However, nobody actually
loses his or her virginity in this movie. Everyone is just trying to fit
in, and they are under the impression that losing your virginity makes you cool
in high school… The problem is that for guys it is clear that virginity loss equals status, but for girls it is more complicated. For girls there
is a fine line between having had sex, and having had too much sex - which Olive
seems to cross.
The movie makes me reflect on high school. People are just
trying to fit in and along the way people lose their virginity or make mistakes
or make things up to fit in. Why should we be judged by others – and why is
judgment so prevalent? In my high school people were labeled “sluts” or
“whores” and people with these labels were shunned… but why do we feel the need
to judge people for their sex lives? And why do we feel the need to compare, and
to fit in with what everyone else is doing? What if someones loses her virginity
when she is not ready just so she can “fit in” because she thinks everyone is doing
it? What if someone commits suicide because no one will talk to the school “slut”? There are a great number of negative consequences for females that could result from the sexual double standard and misperceiving the social norm. Something needs to change...
Trailer for Easy A
Works Cited
Chia, S. C. & Gunther, A. C. (2006). How media contribute to misperceptions of social norms about sex. From Mass Communication & Society. 9(3), 301-320.
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